I want to share some simple but powerful wellbeing practices I recommend to everyone I work with. These aren’t about getting it perfect — they’re about showing up for yourself each day, just like you show up for the people you love.
Think of wellbeing practices like brushing your teeth or changing your clothes — they’re everyday habits, but for your mental and emotional health. They help you feel more grounded, more supported, and less overwhelmed.
1. Start With a Commitment to Yourself
Your wellbeing has to begin with you. That means caring for yourself like you do your loved ones — without guilt. If you mess up or feel like you’ve fallen short, try talking to yourself with compassion. Remind yourself that things are rarely black and white, and often, many other factors are at play.
Ask yourself regularly:
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What do I need right now?
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How am I feeling?
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What would be the kindest thing I could do for myself in this moment?
This kind of self-check-in is powerful. If the world feels like it’s against you, the last thing you need is to be against yourself too.
2. Create Time for You
This can feel strange at first, especially if you’re a new mum, a carer, or someone who tends to put others first. But carving out time for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s necessary. I even put it in my diary as a non-negotiable appointment and let those around me know.
It’s not about filling the time with tasks. Sometimes just sitting, breathing, or doing nothing is exactly what you need. We often say, “I don’t have time,” but really it’s about valuing yourself enough to make time.
3. Start a Journaling Practice
Writing things down can be incredibly therapeutic. Whether it’s jotting a few thoughts, listing things you’re grateful for, or writing out a full brain-dump like Julia Cameron’s “morning pages,” journaling helps clear the clutter in your mind.
When it’s on paper, it’s no longer swirling around in your head. You can begin to process it, reflect, or even just let it go. I’m a bit old-school and love pen and paper, but do what works for you.
4. Practice Gratitude
Especially if you struggle with depression, a gratitude practice can be like little pockets of light. Even in the darkest moments, finding something — however small — to be thankful for connects you back to your heart.
It reminds you that there is still good in your life. Gratitude helps shift your focus from what’s missing to what’s here. For me, it’s been life-changing.
5. Live Mindfully
Mindfulness is simply being present — something that’s harder than it sounds. Most of us rush through life, jumping from one task to the next. But slowing down, even briefly, can help soothe anxiety and bring clarity.
Try this:
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When drinking your tea, really notice the warmth of the mug, the scent, the taste.
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Between tasks, pause, breathe, and check in with yourself.
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When petting your furry friend, tune into the feel of their fur (and maybe try not to notice the smell too much!).
It’s about coming back to the now, over and over again — instead of being stuck in the past or worrying about the future.
In Summary
To recap, here are a few wellbeing practices to consider:
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Make a daily commitment to care for yourself
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Set boundaries and protect your time
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Journal your thoughts and feelings
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Practice daily gratitude
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Stay present and live mindfully
These may seem small, but together they make a real difference. If any of this resonates and you’d like more support, please don’t hesitate to reach out. You don’t have to do it all on your own.
Take care of yourself — you’re worth it.